It’s Time to Choose Your Team

It’s Time to Choose Your Team

If you managed to find your way to these words and have the leisure time to read, you can trust that you are among the most privileged beings to be walking the Earth in 2023. Maybe you have noticed that humanity is in a state of spiritual emergency. Our conscious…

Integrating and Relaunching the New “Me”

Integrating and Relaunching the New “Me”

2023 has been quite the trip for me… What a wild time to be your own boss, navigating the stewardship of an unwitting brand identity. Despite a lot of noise I’ve been hearing about new platforms, ever narrower niches, AI-generated content, beating the algorithm,…

The Blessings of Rejection

The Blessings of Rejection

I am learning to love rejection as an inevitable and instructional part of the creative process, and living a creative life, as this book I am writing is also writing me. Sometimes it’s not clear who is creating what. Recently I held a crowd funding campaign to…

This is Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work

This is Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work

As we transition into a new year, many of us will take time to look back on our experiences and lessons from the past year. And many of us will dream and plan around what we’d like to achieve, feel, create or become in the year ahead. Traditionally, this is the time…

Voting for Pleasure Over Pressure

Voting for Pleasure Over Pressure

What does the politics of sex have to do with the purpose of our work? They are connected with one simple shift: voting for PLEASURE over PRESSURE. Politics of sex, and work Patriarchal power dynamics pervade our current reality: at home, at school, at work, and in…

How to Practice Purpose

How to Practice Purpose

I have been seeing many ads lately that entice with the promise to help me figure out or find my life purpose. They imply solutions that the teacher has earned through hard work… trade secrets that can be revealed in the form of a five-step formula to finding…

Staying Small and Going Slow

Staying Small and Going Slow

Bigger is not always better. And there’s nowhere to go from here in such a hurry. I am happy to choose quality, to choose integrity, to choose freedom… I prefer this over being big or growing fast. But it’s not always easy to choose those things….

Embracing Kindness Over Niceness

Embracing Kindness Over Niceness

No more nice girl or nice guy. The era of niceness has far outlived its usefulness and it needs to die. We need to embody torch bearers and truth speakers if we are going to collectively evolve. Niceness is a waste of our precious personal energy, pure and simple. We…

The Truth About the Truth

We talk a lot about “speaking your Truth”. It’s a BIG IDEA – the Truth. Often we think we are speaking our truth, when we’re really up to something else… when we are acting out an ego agenda through our self-expression. It takes deep…

The Dark Side of Money Mandalas

The Dark Side of Money Mandalas

Yes, I love you. And no, I do not want to join your abundance fractal or money mandala or gifting circle or sacred economy lotus. Why? Because to me, this is a reincarnation of an old paradigm game… now wrapped in spiritual language. Here is how it generally…

Harnessing the Power of Healthy Anger

Harnessing the Power of Healthy Anger

During my women’s retreat at Molino del Rey healing center in Spain this past week, there was a recurring theme around anger: our repression and our expression of anger; our addiction and our aversion to anger; how anger can be helpful and how it can be harmful….

Three Blocks to Living a Purposeful Life

Three Blocks to Living a Purposeful Life

More and more we are waking up and seeing how disconnected we are from Purpose. It is painful to realize. Yet the conventional coaching wisdom on this is reductionist to the point that it’s almost flippant: follow your passions, listen to your heart, embrace…

The Difference Between Giving Up and Letting Go

The Difference Between Giving Up and Letting Go

It’s been a while since I have written anything new. I am looking at a folder full of half-written, never published blog articles. And none of them feel particularly relevant right now. Today, it feels like I am coming to confessional. The past few weeks have…

How to Choose Focus over FOMO

How to Choose Focus over FOMO

Focus. In our hyper-connected “always-on” world, we have instant and constant access to an infinite amount of possibilities, opportunities, and distractions. But we have a finite amount of energy, a limited number of hours in the day. If we don’t tune into this…